Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Cabanas


March 27, 2007 - Cabanas

Life is so very good. We enjoyed five wonderful days in Sagres. Thursday turned out to be my best day of surfing. I rode the waves for 5 hours without stop under a clear blue sky in crystal clear water with long smooth waves. Saying goodbye to Rafeal, my surf instructor and his family on Friday afternoon after a morning of surfing felt like leaving old friends behind. The week of surf was incredible. I hope we will get back there someday.

From Sagres we traveled two hours east to a small fishing/tourism village called “Cabanas” which is also on the coast of Portugal where we met Duarte’s parents and some other family members. We enjoyed three very luxurious days there. The place where we stayed was amazing. Compared to the modest apartment we rented in Sagres for $22 dollars per night – we were living large. We had a beautiful suite situated on the ocean, complete with two bathrooms, a kitchen, and dining room. The resort included a heated swimming pool, a sauna, a hot tub, exercise equipment and more. Though such a place doesn’t typically fit our lifestyle or our budget, I must admit the plush way of living was pretty nice. The funny thing is that I have been there once before…it’s amazing to mark time as I remember my first visit there. Duarte and I were just beginning to get a bit more serious with our relationship. We were living in Clemson, SC and Duarte invited me to spend two weeks in Portugal. Not really sure where the relationship was going at that time, I was reluctant, but eventually agreed. After arriving to Lisbon from the United States, Duarte and I drove south to Cabanas. (His aunt and uncle have a timeshare there.) It seemed that we were so young and yet that was only 7 years ago. I was so impressed with this incredible place and all that we enjoyed during my first visit to this beautiful country. His “wooing” certainly was successful. The second visit was notably different with two kids running around the very same place where are relationship was just taking off.

The allure to Cabanas is really just sunshine and ocean. Two streets lined with small restaurants and a few shops are all there is to this little town. The fishing must be really good as there are lots of small wooden, hand painted boats that are tethered to the beach ready to go out early in the morning with their weathered owners for their daily catches. The fresh shrimp, crab and fish would be sold to local restaurants. Our meals in Cabanas were some of the best seafood meals I have ever eaten.

Running in Cabanas was wonderful as I found a dusty, unpaved road just past the main streets of Cabanas. The run could not have been more colorful had I been running in a fruit market. I passed peach trees, orange trees, lemon trees, fig trees, almond trees, olive trees, cactus’, and flowers of every color imaginable. The air smelled of orange blossoms and the road rambled along with nothing but beauty for miles and miles.

This trip had us living out of suitcases for 10 days. The kids are comfortable with our vagabond lifestyle. No longer did Jenna wake up wondering where she was at night. She was accepting of each new day and the different opportunities that she would be able to enjoy. Marcos loved it and finally became comfortable with change. I appreciate the time we have to explore the many treasures Portugal has to offer. With two and a half months remaining, I feel the urgency to grasp firmly to each incredible experience. There is so much more to see, do, feel… Viva Portugal!

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Surf Diaries


Sagres, Portugal – May 19, 2007

I am a beach girl – there is no doubt about it. I love the mountains and the mountains are where I live and work – but the beach is where my spirit soars. We are in Sagres, the southernmost point of Portugal and Europe. It was from here that the first explorers departed to discover the new world. High cliffs overlook the meeting of two great oceans – the Atlantic and the Mediterranean. Sagres is a surfing and windsurfing mecca for enthusiasts from around the world.

We are here to surf. Or rather, I am here to surf. A lifelong dream of mine is finally being fulfilled. Duarte surprised me on Christmas day with a certificate promising me one full week of surf lessons. Four hours a day to do something so incredibly self- serving. If it weren’t a gift I would never have even thought of such a luxury. This is one gift I wouldn’t return. As it turns out I will be having one week of private lessons with a Brazilian, English speaking instructor who has been surfing for 18 years. His name is Rafael.

Today I had my first lesson, I was so nervous, so anxious. Being a Florida girl, I have spent most of my life swimming only in warm water. If it is cold, I don’t go in. My greatest fear facing the week was getting into the cold water. Would I be able to go in? The day was uncharacteristically windy and the tide incredibly choppy. I wasn’t so sure. But dreams are dreams and there was no way I would let cold water stand in my way of a week of surf. My instructor fitted me with a nice wetsuit to keep me warm. Ahhh… already I was feeling more relaxed. Next we found a surfboard. Then we were off to the beach in the rusty old surf van of the International School of Surf.

At the praia de Tonel, high cliffs surrounded the choppy blue cove where I would have my first day of surfing. Though we were in a cove, there was not shelter from the violent wind. It was hard to open my eyes as the sand from the beach was blasting us with each gust. After thirty minutes of land instruction, Rafael and I headed for the ocean to give it a try. I entered the water with a rush of adrenaline. My breath was short with the cold water but the adrenaline kept me from really feeling the cold. The first nice wave came, I turned the board toward shore, paddled and I caught the very first wave I ever tried to surf! I was surfing!!! Okay, maybe it wasn’t pretty and I did fall pretty quickly but I did it. I was exhilarated. I played in the waves for about an hour practicing the motion of standing up over and over again. The current and the wind were so strong that it took all of the strength I had to get the board back out into the surf after catching each wave. After about 10 waves and one longer ride… I was pooped. It was a hard day. I am surprised by how physical surfing truly is.

Now as I anticipate tomorrow’s lesson, I hope that my aching muscles ease up so that I can enjoy tomorrow as fully as I did today. Man, I am tired. It would be nice if the wind would ease up as well.



Tuesday, May 20, 1997 – Surfing hurts.

Day two of surf lessons was brutal. I awoke this morning feeling surprisingly better than I expected to feel after a few hours of using muscles the day before that are not frequently used. Rafael picked me up in the surf van at 10:00am and off we went to scout the waves and the conditions. The wind was still blowing pretty hard but not nearly with the force as yesterday. The sun was shining and the temperatures were to get as high as 50 degrees today. I felt the day’s promise. We opted to return to the praia de Tonel once again. The conditions weren’t great but for learning they would be okay.

We entered the water right away. The wetsuit certainly kept me warmer than I would have been without it – but that water was COLD!! The North winds that had been blowing for two days now effectively cooled the ocean – much to my dismay. I managed to stand up on the first wave but I shivered all the way until I fell. Wave two turned out to be my best ride of the day. Not only did I stand up but I surfed it! What a rush! My confidence was soaring. The feeling of gliding and having control in the whitewater was fantastic. I couldn’t wait to catch the next one…and that is when my day took a turn. For the next hour, I was pounded by the washing machine-like waves coming in every direction. Because the cove is surrounded by high cliffs, the waves were being blown up against the high walls causing them to bounce off the walls and roll back sideways. At times there were waves coming from behind me, beside me and from in front of me. I took so many falls, so many attacks by unforgiving waves, I just couldn’t get it together. Wave after wave resulted in bruise after bruise, tweeked back, skinned feet. I really took a beating. I decided that I had had enough for the day when I could no longer feel my feet and I found that my lips were frozen in place. Rafael encouraged me to try one more wave which I did and it was a good one. I surfed that wave all the way to shore. I was too exhausted to appreciate my success and somehow willed my battered body to the place where my dry clothes waited along with a light snack. I survived the day – but just barely.

Wednesday, March 21, 2007 – A short but sweet day.

I awoke this morning thinking there would be no way I could get in the water and take a beating like I did yesterday. My body was screaming with pain. The temperature had dropped a few more degrees and the water was said to be even colder than yesterday. Argh. What had I gotten myself into? Why did I want to learn to surf anyway?

Rafael showed up at 10:00 as usual. We drove around and scouted the different beaches around Sagres and once again settled on Tonel. I willed myself into my wetsuit and reluctantly entered the water. Rafael opted not to go in today – the water would be too cold for him as he typically stands still in the water watching me and giving me feedback. And so, I was on my own. Fortunately the sea was calmer today and I was able to keep my footing as I pushed my surfboard through the waves to a point where I could start surfing. True to form, my first wave was a good one and I rode it all the way to land. I caught wave after wave doing my best to improve my stance and to gain control of the board. The ocean was much more kind to me today and I was grateful.

I was having a good day of surfing but I cut it short when the wind picked up and the ocean once again was rocking me as if I was a soft cloth is a big, sloshy washing machine. I figured I would quit while I was ahead. I realized that I am learning to surf in pretty extreme conditions – what would it be like with a calmer ocean and less wind?
Following the lesson, I entered our apartment with more steady legs to stand on, arms capable of holding my kids and enough energy to play for the remainder of the afternoon. Duarte bought Marcos a boogie board and Marcos was so excited. He couldn’t wait to show me his new “surfboard.” He exclaimed “I’m going to be a surfer just like Mama.”

Tomorrow is supposed to be a great day with less wind, warmer temperatures and smaller waves. That sounds good to me!

Sheep


Sheep - March 16, 2007

I am fascinated by sheep. Before my stay here in Portugal, I never paid much attention to sheep nor did I ever really think about them. Now that I see them every day, I find myself thinking about them a lot.

In the Tras-os-Montes region of Portugal there is a great deal of agriculture. All around us are small herds of cattle, goats, and sheep. Moving these herds around are the shepherds. I am not entirely clear whether these shepherds are the owners or if they are caretakers for the flocks of sheep. Regardless, the life of a shepherd is simple and seemingly very serene. Day in and day out the shepherds walk through the fields encouraging the sheep to keep moving so they don’t over graze an area. Landowners invite the shepherds and their sheep onto their land to allow the sheep to graze. This keeps the grass short and well fertilized. The shepherds carry a stick and are usually accompanied by a dog or two. They are all too willing to strike up a conversation when we come across them is large open expanse of nothing but sheep, grass and trees. Shepherds begin moving the sheep in the mornings and come in for the night at dusk. The sheep are closed in a barn or shed for the night to keep them from eating grass that is moist with dew. Moist grass can ferment inside the sheep’s stomach and cause so much bloating that the sheep could die.

Yesterday in a mountain town called Monte Alegre, we were watching a shepherd come in with a huge herd of sheep and goats. The mountain was rocky with sparse vegetation, so we could see him descend the mountain far off in the distance. When the herd finally approached us, we were amazed at the number of animals – perhaps 100 sheep and goats. Some had tags, some had green ribbons, some were painted with a red or blue spot. There was a musty smell that filled the air as they passed. There were rams with curling horns. There were little lambs, bounding along with the youthful energy. A few of the goats with their black coats stood up high above the others. The dogs that ran alongside the herd were friendly and happy – running up to us for a quick hello before they went back to work. We followed the shepherd and his herd down the road and I was absolutely enthralled with what I saw when we got to the village. The shepherd walked the animals into the narrow streets of the village. Outside by each house, stood a woman waiting for her goats or sheep to come home. At each house, the respective animals would be dropped off with their owner to be shut in their shed beneath the owner’s home for the night. It was just like the bus driver dropping the kids to their homes after school.

At Quinta da Mata, there is also a sizeable flock of sheep. During the three months we have been here, we have seen many sheep being born. It’s fun to watch them go from walking on shaky legs to keep up with the others only on their second day of life to becoming big capable sheep ready to have their own lambs.

Just as we have seen life, we have also seen death. One lamb died only three days after it was born. It’s mother had an infection and was unable to nurse. We did our best to save the lamb by feeding it from a wine bottle with a nipple attached. Oddly and to my utter lack of understanding, this very same mother gave birth to the dead lamb’s twin on the very day the first lamb died. This lamb lived. Unfortunately, these sheep live to die. Many of the cute little lambs that we admire so much end up on the dinner table. I cannot eat lamb.

Jenna loves the sheep. She looks forward to visiting with them each day. We call them “meehs” and she does too. The sheep and Jenna speak the same language. Marcos likes to help Filinto put the sheep away for the night. I could watch the sheep for hours. They walk, eat, rest in the sun, “meeh” and move on. The young lambs are playful. They like to jump down the hills and play with other lambs their age. When they nurse, their tails shake.

I think it is healthy to co-exist with animals. There is much to be learned from the birth and death cycle. Farm life certainly has shown me a lot of that. I understand now why people use the expression “counting sheep.” These peaceful animals with their cloud-shaped bodies grazing on green fields of grass are a sight that surely encourages even the most uptight person to take a deep breath and realize that there are moments in life that are so very beautiful.

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

Spring

March 13, 2007 – Spring!

Spring has sprung in Portugal! Flowers are blooming, leaves are budding, gardens are being planted, birds are singing and the quality of each day has increased with all of the warmth and sunshine. Finally the rainy season has passed. With spring’s arrival, there is even more to experience and enjoy. It’s hard to drag ourselves indoors as the sun’s bright rays invite us to play more, play longer. I love spring.

There is a notable difference in the behavior of those living around us which I think is due to the change of season. Our village is a quiet place. During the winter months, it was rare to see many people outside, except for the women hanging the laundry in the afternoon. Now there is evidence of life in the sleepy village. Women sit in clusters in the sunny doorways of their homes. They pass the time talking with their neighbors until the men come home. The men sit in the center of the village on benches. With their button down, wool caps and canes, they whiddle at a piece of wood, they talk with their friends and watch the day pass by. At the end of the day, the working men, bring their horses in from plowing the fields. The horses get watered in the village fountain and then they are shut in their space for the night below the small homes of their owners.

It’s hard to believe how quickly time is passing. We are at the half-way point for our 6 month visit. I am in awe of how much we have experienced, felt and changed since our arrival. Looking back at the pictures from our first weeks here, I see an incredible difference. Though my language has always been rough, I now know so many more words, verb endings and I have a better grasp on sentence structure – thanks to my Portuguese teacher. I feel like I have a better idea of what is going on around me. Marcos seems more at peace. He speaks Portuguese well. He is more independent than he was in the beginning and gratefully less angry. He plays outside from noon until 6:00pm each day – coming in with rosy cheeks, dirty hands and a little bit of hunger. Jenna is growing. What happened to our little baby? She walks with steady legs over the rocky, uneven terrain. She understands Portuguese as well or better than English and she is so very happy. Duarte is more relaxed than I have seen him in years. He is enjoying experiencing his culture again and a bit nostalgic for the country that he will leave behind in just a few short months. He lives life fully. These six months, though not always easy, are such a gift to our family.

We have a lot of travel ahead of us in the upcoming weeks. This weekend Duarte will paddle in an extreme kayak race. He has been boating a lot and therefore excited for the opportunity to compete. For Christmas, Duarte gave me a whole week of surf school in the southernmost tip of Portugal. I have always wanted to learn to surf and have been anticipating this week since we arrived. Following the week of surf, Duarte’s family has rented a house in Algarve. Algarve is also in the south of Portugal. It is a well-known travel destination for those from England and Germany. We will visit with the family for a few days and then head back to Chaves before my mom comes to visit for two weeks. The day after she leaves our friends the Werner’s will come to see Portugal and stay with us for 9 days. Marcos is ecstatic over having his buddy Luke to show around. In May, Duarte has some friends coming over to paddle the amazing rivers that are running all around us. There is so much to do.

Spring’s arrival marks our half-way point and it brings warm weather, long, sunny days of fun and friends and family. As I write, I look out from the window of Quinta da Mata to see the valley of Chaves. The birds are singing and the trees are gently swaying with the warm morning breeze. I need to get outside…a new day awaits.

Wednesday, March 7, 2007

Morocco


March 7, 2007 - Posted by Duarte

On our way…
Lipe and I were finally living our long dream to voyage to Africa. My brother Lipe has been in Morocco three times and has also visited Tunisia. I have traveled a bit myself, but never to Africa. Somehow we arranged to use of our father’s Land Rover, obtained the approval of our wary wives, did a bit of googling to learn more about kayaking and paragliding in northern Africa and took off on our big adventure.
The trip began at 4am on a Saturday morning. Only 15 minutes into the trip, we were crossing a Spanish mountain pass with snow, strong cross-winds and crazy truck drivers. With sunrise came our first challenge. We decided to pull off the road when we were a little south of Salamanca to stretch our legs and to get a breath of fresh air. We veered off the main road into a vineyard and didn’t realize that the dirt road was covered with “monheca” (a term my brother and I like to use) – red mud that is super slippery as it consists of red clay fully saturated with water and is therefore not so good for driving. It took us 20 minutes to backtrack 50 yards in the dirt road and I had to help Lipe by standing in the mud and pushing and pulling the rear of the suv to keep it from sliding into the ditch.
Driving through Spain’s expansive southern rural landscapes was a real treat, but the most impressive sight that marked the first morning of our voyage, was the sight of the Riff mountain range across the straight. It seemed impossible but we could actually see Africa from the Spanish coast. Europe and Africa… two continents so close, yet so far from each other socially, culturally, politically and economically. On the European side, there were glamorous couples in sports cars parked on the overlooks gazing upon the romantic views of the ocean and at the contour of their exotic neighboring continent. On the southern side of the strait, as we were soon to find out, there were hordes of desperate refugees from impoverished and warring African countries trying to cross to Europe at any cost, and legions of Mafiosi and government officials willing to bend the rules to make a buck – all this in addition to millions of good honest people too, of course.
We had no problem crossing the strait in the ferry and only minimal bribing was needed to pass through customs in Tangier. We stopped in Tangier just long enough to withdraw Dirhams (Moroccan currency), to get a cup of mint tea and a buy a few necessities. One hour later we were on the interstate trying to get as far away from the dangerous and uninteresting northern cities as possible. We spent our first night in a non-descript hotel beside a gas station near the interstate. We paid 20 Euros for the room and 5 Euros for a plate of french-fries and a cup of mint tea – included in the price were two baseball bat totting thugs who patrolled the parking lot to protect our flashy suv (with the two kayaks, a paraglider and a bunch of gear locked inside it).

Back in our hotel room, I fell asleep happy. I was finally in Africa, the suv was being well cared for, the border crossing was not too difficult, and best of all, Lipe and I seemed to be as good of a team as I always thought we would be.
After a good night of rest and a hot shower, we said goodbye to the more developed coast and headed East through the fertile plains between the Riff mountains and the Middle Atlas range. The population there was dense and very poor. There was a lot of agriculture but there was a noticeable absence of farm machinery. As we drove by these primitive landscapes I thought…”there is no lodging and there are no isolated areas for safe camping… I wonder where we’ll sleep tonight”. As we approached the mountains, the ground became more arid and the landscape seemed to be similar to that of California – pine forests, dry, and sunny. We stopped a couple of times to soak in the views and sounds but we quickly become self conscious of the curious looks of the villagers that were appearing all around us. Everywhere we went there were farmers, shepherds, children, and people just walking. We couldn’t figure out where they were going or for what purpose. The landscape was certainly novel and interesting, but we were still not ready to set foot outside our 4x4 metal encased, safety bubble.
That afternoon we reached our planned destination for the night – Kenifra. We had heard that this town was the hub for folks running the Er-Rbia river so we anticipated seeing a couple of hostels with European vans loaded with kayaks. When we arrived, however, what we saw was a chaotic sprawl of red buildings, dilapidated parks, trash, thousands of people walking and bicycling in the streets, and lots of vendors selling random items. I thought: “Oh my god… what have we done. This place is absolutely foreign. Everyone looks menacing, dangerous, savage and ready to do us harm. Quick, lock the doors, and never stop.” I looked at Lipe for reassurance but it was clear that despite his experience in Morocco, he was also way out of his comfort zone. “What should we do?” … It was at this point that we practiced our most advanced technique for survival in inhospitable foreign places: we parked the truck, sat in a sidewalk café and asked for a mint tea. Yes… sounds funny but this was probably the most useful technique we used in this trip. Soon, we began to see the real people behind the dark skinned faces. There were confident old ladies, daring young guys, experienced old men, and nurturing mothers – just like everywhere else in the world. The normalcy of our behavior also made us less interesting to those around us. We were no longer the newly arrived entertainment. So… we soaked in this special feeling of fitting in such an exotic space, savored our tea and studied the map.
After some thinking we decided to drive to a nearby mountain to look for camping near the river I hoped to run in my kayak the following day. After about 1 hour of driving on a rough mountain road we came upon a village named Sours Oum Er-Rbia (the springs of the Er-bia river). The first house had a sign saying “Auberge” (Hostel) – we were set. Once again we used our technique and parked next to the village café, asked for a mint tea and spent two hours watching Spanish football with 20 other men. We cheered both teams loudly and enthusiastically because we didn’t care who won – we just felt that yelling out loud for a Spanish team with a bunch of rugged Berber mountain men in Africa was one of the most unexpected, outrageous, fun, fulfilling thing anyone could ever ever ever hope for.
During the game we met a friendly man and his son who invited us to stay at his home and even offered to make us dinner – we accepted. We parked the suv next to the road and asked whether it was safe to leave the kayaks on top. They seemed offended. They said: “Berber people are nice and honest. It’s Arabs you should not trust.” A comment reflecting severe ethnic conflicts in this country as we learned in this trip. Anyway… we left the suv a little bit unsure of its fate and walked to his house through the village’s dark quiet alleys.
The man woke up his wife and lit the wood stove in the family living/bed room. He put in a DVD with Berber music and left us while he went to the kitchen. I remember hearing Lipe’s story of staying in a Berber home during his first visit to Morocco when doing his approach to the summit of Tubkal. Since then I had often fantasized with such an experience, and now… here we were. The six year-old boy was excited to have a warm fire and to my amazement, he stuck his feet inside the wood stove. The 1.5 year old daughter woke up with our noise and complained a little bit. As a father myself I noticed that she was wearing wool pajamas, a bulging diaper and her feet were bare (Jenna would never fall asleep like that).
Our generous host brought in a lamb stew called Tajin. And we drank hot, sweet mint tea. We shared the tea with the family, the bread with the kids, and ate most of the Tajin with no utensils. ! Like in most social situations in this trip we didn’t really know how to behave there. The kid wanted some of the stew but the father wouldn’t let him eat. The little daughter was even more obvious in her protests but the father kept encouraging us to keep eating. So we did. What else could we do? What would you do? We did burp at the end of the meal and moaned with pleasure because we both had learned that these behaviors indicated that we had really enjoyed the meal – the man seemed content with our noises and let us go to bed.
After breakfast we pondered how much to give our host and after realizing that all we had were 100 Dirhams, we decided to give him just that. He was happy and thankful and spent the following hour or so helping us scout the river. The most interesting portion of the river begun a mere 100 yards from its spring. It was a class IV rapid of about 400 meters, narrow and continuous. Then there was a parking lot, a bridge and another section with about 7 km relatively visible from the road. So, at about 11am I put on my gear under the close supervision of about 30 men and kids and hiked up to the spring. Lipe took photos, said farewell to our friends and ran shuttle for me. The first rapids were a bit unnerving because they were very different from anything I had paddled before, because I had an audience, and because I was boating in Africa! After half of a km, though, the kinks were gone and I was moving fast through class IV/III rapids. Interestingly, about 1/3 of the water coming from springs and salty streams, so the river attracted animals that enjoyed grazing in the weeds in the shallow sections. At times, these grazing animals actually caused me some alarm during my trip down the river. The wild horses in the middle of the current became quite nervous and aggressive when they saw me approaching. ACA does not teach paddlers how to dodge wild horses but I managed figuring I would roll upside down and wait it out if I was truly in danger. The river was a wonderful. I walked a couple Class V or VI rapids and arrived to the take out elated.
I have carried a kayak on my back more times that I can remember which is typical for accessing or exiting a river. This is often when my mind slows down and I reflect upon the river experience. In the river, there’s no time to think or reflect… I just have to act. On this day however, I had a different experience. During my hike out, it was obvious that the trail was not made for kayakers. It was used by donkeys, herds of sheep and goats, shepherds and farmers. Trails in the US are designed to minimize erosion and optimize the recreation experience. Carrying my boat up this steep trail and passing farmers who were etching a living out of these barren slopes I felt conflicted. Was I insulting their hardships? Should I have thrown away my toy and carried a load of wood fuel to the road instead? Why did I feel entitled to play amongst these hard working people? So I ran a river in Africa… so what? Does this make me a more enlightened individual? Someone better equipped to contribute to a better tomorrow?

After loading the boat, drinking water and changing clothes we headed down the mountain towards Ilmchil, the gateway to the highest and most challenging pass of the High Atlas mountains. But… that’s another story..

Ate breve, Duarte

Monday, March 5, 2007

Alentejo


March 5, 2007

Alentejo…even the name of this region rolls off the tongue with slow ease…Alentejo is a large, gently rolling expanse of land just south of Lisbon. It is known for its olive trees, cork trees, good wine, sheep, cheese and lazy inhabitants. I would be lazy too if I lived here. In every direction is beauty. Lush green hills dotted with healthy olive trees and cork trees unfold in every direction. There are sheep or cattle happily grazing here and there. Like Montana, the sky is big and open. It seems that the landscape rolls on forever. After watching too many episodes of Teletubbies with Marcos when he was younger, I kept joking with Duarte that I expected to see Tinky Winky hop out from behind a tree at any moment as the perfect landscape was very similar as it is in that odd children’s tv show.

Duarte was invited to speak at a sustainable tourism seminar for the day in a town called Avis. The foundation paid our way to Alentejo and offered us an incredible suite in a beautiful rural hotel. This town where we stayed was called Alter de Chao. It is known worldwide for the Lusitano horses that are bred here. We enjoyed three nights at this hotel. Each day was filled with exploration. While Duarte spoke at his seminar, Marcos, Jenna and I wandered through the ancient streets of Avis. The first place I stopped was the tourism office. When I asked how where I could find some attractions of interest, the young woman working there offered to show us around. She literally closed up her office and walked us around using her chain of keys to access the medieval tower which is the central point to the town, the agricultural museum and the monastery. In the agricultural museum, the young employees were incredibly kind. They would actually open the display cases for Marcos to try on or try out some of the different items on display. Marcos was truly engaged.

We visited the famous stables where the Lusitano horses are bred. The stables were originally built in the 17th century. We saw one hundred of the dark brown horses in a large barn. The horses were groomed to perfection and they were enjoying a very nice meal. Over half of these horses where pregnant. The others were tending to their newborns who were freely roaming about the hall.

Meals in Alentejo are divine. Typical to the Portuguese culture in general, when one sits down to a meal, the waiters put three or four “snacks” upon the table. If you choose to eat them, which one usually does, then you will be charged for them. The typical snacks include fresh bread, local cheese, olives and presunto. The cheese of this region is goat cheese. They say here that the best cheeses are the cheeses that taste the most like “feet.” For some odd reason, this cheese is really good. The wine is amazing and served with lunch and dinner. One of the more popular dishes of this region is a soup called “Acorda” which consists of bread, olive oil, garlic, egg, fish and parsley. We ate a lot of good food in Alentejo.

We encountered Americans while we were having lunch in a little town we were passing through on our way to meet a friend. It was strange for me to see them after so much time and I am still unsure of my reaction. I was standing at the counter of the café, waiting to pay for our meal, when I noticed two people who looked different from everyone else. The man was tall with grey hair. He was wearing a polo shirt, khakis, tennis shoes and a waist pack. The woman beside him was short with dark hair. She wore colorful clothing. I watched them try to figure out the whole eating process. They didn’t speak Portuguese, nor did they even try – which embarrassed me a little bit. They were in the middle of Alentejo – representing all of America and they were standing there clueless in the local café trying the figure out how to order and pay for a coffee and a pastry. I felt a little bit ashamed of our culture. We stand out so much, we are so privileged, and we typically only know one language. We pass through these cultures with travel without taking any time to understand those around us. We just look, buy and move along. I didn’t speak to those people though I could have helped them. I just watched indifferently as they struggled at the counter, ate their pastry and then moved along to go shopping.

Duarte surprises me often over here and I think this is mostly unintentional. Driving from place to place, we stop in one city or village or another and he always has an interesting tidbit of information about a building, a bridge, a church, etc. This country is small but its history is big. I enjoy learning about the famous kings, sailors, explorers, warriors, architects, etc. It is awe-inspiring to stand inside the walls of a building that have been standing since before the year of Christ. So many people have stepped where I stepped. What did their lives mean? With each experience that I have and each place that I see, I become more and more pensive about my place in this world, my contribution to the future and what my life truly means.

On our way to Portalegre we stopped in a large historical city called Evora. This city attracts many tourists from all over the world as it is a national heritage site with many ancient buildings still in tact. I knew nothing of Evora before our arrival and we ended up having a great day roaming through the streets, taking in the sites. One of the churches we visited had a small chapel attached. Inside the chapel the entire interior was made up of human bones…there were piles and piles of femurs, ulnas, skulls and more.

In Portalegre, we stayed two nights with a friend of Duarte’s and his daughter. DiDi’s daughter “Magarida” is three months older than Marcos. For the first time in 8 weeks Marcos had a playmate. They were wonderful together and Marcos was happier than I’ve seen him in a long time. Though Marcos’ Portuguese is still a bit rough, they found a way to communicate. Together they ran through the streets of the city. They ate meals side by side and sang songs that they would make up in the car. They played in the high castle of Martao which overlooks the city and they read books together before falling asleep. Marcos has requested that Margarida stay with us forever.

Our days in Alentejo were beautiful. The travels with Marcos and Jenna were easy. We played and laughed and overall enjoyed the treasures of this region. These days together as a family, exploring this old country are so very rich.